Wednesday, April 25, 2007

Ponderings...

I have been busy baking the past few nights and I'm loving every minute of it! =) Thank you to all the wonderful people who order cinnamon rolls from me (hugs to you all!!!) I really need the baking frenzy to get my mind off a lot of things...I welcome the work with open arms!

I don't know if any of you out there realize, that sometimes the seemingly happiest people around can be the saddest people you'd know?

I just got a text message now...

" do you know what real love is?....itis when you go through the hard trials of trust & sacrifice, and still wake up every morning falling in love all over again..."

Just wanted to share that because it's nice.... and true=)

Why do nice people have to go through emotional hardships? Betrayal? Disappointments? Hurt? I know a good deal of good people who are not getting the kind of love and care they deserve. And is this the saddeness I am talking about? Well, yes. I think one of the heaviest burden a person can have---more than any kind of physical stress or wear---it's hurt in the heart that is most painful. It has mind altering, mood swingging, appetite losing and body deteriorating effects to people....some pretty good people. It happens to many of us and it happens to the best amongst us.

I think pretty much all of us have dealt with this ..at least once in his or her lifetime. Sometimes I just can't help but wonder...why so hard on some people? Why easy on others?

Just some thoughts...

4 comments:

Oliboy's Adventures said...

is this for me? hehehe!

oh captain my captain said...

i know no matter how many cliche we say about life, the trials, disappointments, etc, it is still hard to understand why we "suffer". but i have always been guided by this, i just want to share: the toughest steel is forged in the hottest furnace.

take care jen! ;0)

Jen Tan said...

yes oli....this is meant fo you =0

Jen Tan said...

hey jake! it's been a while! how have you been doin?

thank you for sharing your thoughts...

and yes...I do believe what you said...trials do make people stronger...tough as steel... in that case I know a good deal of supermen and superwomen in my life ;P perhaps I am one too?

take care also!